Embracing Mistakes To Become Your Best
Athletes are often afraid of making mistakes. You might think that making a mistake means failing or will lead to disastrous outcomes. But mistakes shouldn’t be feared! Being afraid of making a mistake leads to tentative and unimaginative play.
The hardest part for most athletes is recovering after a mistake. Athletes need to accept that mistakes happen frequently, and they need a specific approach to bounce back after they happen. We recommend developing a mistake ritual, something you do or say, that communicates to yourself and your teammates and coaches that you recognize the mistake, and you’re moving on. Some common mistake ritual words are: "Flush it," "No sweat," "Let it go," and "Brush it off." Mistake rituals will help build mental toughness and encourage recovery. Bouncing back from mistakes is so important, because refocusing on the next play will help you perform your best. The most important play is always the next play.
Refocusing on the next play keeps your efforts and energy on what’s most important. You can also “park” certain mistakes to be addressed later. If you are missing the goal when you shoot with your left foot during a game, perform your mistake ritual, refocus on the next play, and set aside a deeper look into this specific skill at a future practice. Some mistakes, however, should just be left behind.
The last page of this excerpt is a worksheet that will help you develop your own mistake rituals.
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