Help! Opposing Coach Mistreats Officials And Players
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"In my son's U-11 travel soccer league, one of the opposing coaches consistently abuses officials, her own players, and our players and coaches. Her team has developed a reputation for dirty play that she does not discourage; when an experienced official disallows it, the coach complains of bias. Some of her players and their parents also behave as she does. Despite our filing reports, the league refuses to penalize her. What is our next step?"
PCA Response by Mike Town, PCA Trainer-Hawaii
This is an unfortunate scenario we hear about too often. Where winning at all costs is the only goal, anything goes, and sport culture degrades, be it professional, college, high school or U-11. That's part of the reason a coach can be the most important character educator in this society. Hopefully a parent or coach attempted to discuss this issue with the coach in question (and not right before or right after a game).
However, the real responsibility lies with the league's board of directors, which must address this issue constructively given its fiduciary duties. The board must take a firm stand --rather than relying upon parents or opposing teams to take action -- to set the tone clearly and articulate a positive culture that engenders respect for officials, the opposing team and the sport itself. The board should step out boldly via training for all coaches, collegial discussion, informal intervention and ultimately enforcement.
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